Fighting

Fighting is one of the most common violations that lead to judicial intervention. While it may seem inconsequential, a simple high school fight can be the basis for a court case considering violence, aggressive behavior, or assault. Depending on the seriousness, youth can even be tried in adult court for their actions.   

With the rise of School Resource Officers In American Schools, it is now easier than ever to get in trouble for what would have previously been seen as a 'schoolyard brawl'.  It is easier to avoid these fights altogether as even association can get you in legal trouble.

Fights almost always occur because of gossip and misunderstandings that build up over the course of many days.  Such animosity is the result of poor communication. It is a rare occasion when people get in a fight while talking about a problem face-to-face.

Think Before You React

It is easy to get caught up in the moment and react based on feelings, rather than fact. For some teens with bad tempers, this can lead to an explosive confrontation. The following are some tips to help you deal with a potential high school fight:

• Consider the source. - If someone is spreading gossip, they probably don't have your best interest at heart. What do they have to gain by telling you something negative?
• Check the facts. - A mature person would go to the source and seek a solution to the problem. However, if you believe that person is threatening you, seek help from an adult. It is never okay to threaten another person.
• Talk about the problem. - When possible, talk with the other person in a safe and neutral area, preferably where adults are present. Often times a fight is over a misunderstanding and it can easily be fixed by discussing the problem rationally.
• Try to have the discussion alone. - Sometimes our friends can be our enemies. Heated discussions can flare up into physical confrontations when other people are around. This can happen when we want to save face or to show others that we aren't afraid of someone else.
• Seek help from an adult. - School fights, especially physical ones, will end up in the guidance counselor's or principal's office anyway. If you think a fight is going to escalate to the point of getting physical, seek help from an adult to diffuse it early. No one wins when there is a physical confrontation.
• Talk to your parents. - It is unfortunate that more teens don't talk to their parents about fights at school. If nothing else, you can be sure that your parents have your best interests at heart. Ask your parents for advice - you may be surprised at their response.